I know I'm not the only person out there who is this way. I know there are others. I've found posts from them on various forums, but in reality no one knows anyone in this situation because no one in this situation talks about it. I know I'm not spouting it to my friends... well I spouted it to one friend, but I've basically already told you about that.
So I had my appointment with my therapist today. I don't think it went well. I just couldn't bring myself to talk about a few things. I don't really know why. Maybe it was because it was just so personal and I'm not comfortable exposing myself that much. Maybe it's because I didn't want to cry. I know I felt it under the surface a couple times.
She asked me a question about me thinking I was gay. It was weird. There was a part of me that for some reason didn't like hearing her say that. I don't know why.
She gave me a new task to try to do, and I don't know if I'm going to be able to do it. I'm supposed to try to make small talk with people I come across. The cashier in the checkout line for instance.
To me it just seems weird. Plus part of me doesn't see what good it's going to do. I mean I'm forced to interact with this person anyway. I'm going to try to make it happen though.
She said something else that struck me as funny when you take a look at the name of the blog. She said that I had a kind of teenager mentality when it came to interacting with other people.
Here's the basic thing that goes on in my head (and yes I realize it's a bit crazy). I'm not that great of a person. That person who I would like to talk with is a much better person then me. If they are willing to lower themselves to my level they'll come to talk with me. I don't want to become a burden to them, so I won't talk with them.
It's weird I know, but that is honestly were my head is a lot of the time. I don't think I'm worth knowing unless you go out of your way to get to know me.
I just don't know how this whole thing is going to work out.